Don't Blame Love For The Mistakes You Make

After a relationship of 5 years one day she left him as she found someone else. He asked her for his mistake, he asked her that what did he do wrong and she replied many times you told me lie, many times you made me cry, many times you have not given me importance, many times when I needed you.. 
You were not there in my life. 

He did not speak a word, after returning back home he committed suicide and left a note

“I am punishing myself for all the mistakes that I have not made in LOVE :'("

Friends, Love is a journey and in this journey at times things may go wrong but that should never become a reason to quit. What really matters is how you together handled that situation and moved out of it. In this story girl had no excuse, she was guilty as she was wrong and thus she has put wrong allegations on the boy who loved her even after she left!

"No one can stop you if you have planned to cheat someone but please don't blame Him/Her for the mistake you make."


Why did you play games with my heart?

While being somebody for someone, most of the girls forget that they have their own personality too. I knew him since the first year of college. I was madly in love with him. He always used to say that we are not in a relationship, but I have feelings for you. I used to think that he loves me, but he is not expressing it. But I used to care for him and love him from the bottom of my heart. I started to plunge deeper into it. He would call me up in the morning, to say “Good morning beautiful” and at night before sleeping to make sure that I’m fine. He always protected me in front of our friends, preferred me, held my hand and told everyone that “she is special to me”. We used to go out on dates, movies & parties. Everyone in college used to think that we’re made for each other. I was very happy. But after a few months, things started worsening. Our relationship started to wane when he passed out of the college and I was still there as a junior. We couldn’t talk as much as we used to; it made me insecure, very insecure.

I used to call him every now and then but he wouldn’t receive. I started growing restless, started spoiling my exams. I couldn’t study, couldn’t do anything. I just used to call him, text him or simply wait for his call. It became an obsession. But he never cared to respond, he would simply message “I am busy, I will talk to you later”. After some days, he even stopped messaging that. One day I called him up from another number, asked him to answer my questions, why was he doing this. His reply was “I never said that we are in a relationship. Why did you assume it? Now please stop disturbing me and get a life!” My whole world came crashing down. I sat in my room, crying for days! Months passed by, and there was no news of him. He never called back, never messaged. I deleted him from my facebook account to avoid visiting his profile again and again. I have stopped believing in love. I don’t trust any guy now! But the questions still haunt me. What was it? Why did he play with my heart? Can anyone explain?

Write all prescriptions in capital letters

Write all prescriptions in capital letters, Mumbai citizens tell doctors

MUMBAI: It turns out that all those jokes about doctors' scrawl are not funny at all.


Doctors' illegible handwriting causes 7,000 deaths in the US every year and another 1.5 million Americans report minor adverse reactions-be it diarrhoea or rashes-or even death.


Now, a movement has begun in Mumbai asking the medical fraternity to write prescriptions in "separate, capital letters". The brainchild of an NGO called the Forum for Enhancement of Quality in Healthcare (FEQH) and the Quality Council of India (a semi-government organization accrediting services), the first meeting on the issue held last week was attended by representatives of medical associations and NGOs. The campaign borrows from QCI's hospital accreditation system called the National Accreditation Board for Hospitals (NABH) which requires prescriptions to be written in capital letters.


"We don't have an estimate of how many people suffer or die because prescriptions written by doctors couldn't be deciphered by pharmacists. But going by the US estimates, we can be sure that India, where 40 lakh prescriptions are written every day, has a fair share of errors," said FEQH chairperson Prakash Gadgil.
Few cases of the tragedy that poor handwriting can wreak have made it to the annals of Indian medical history; in the most famous one, a three-year-old child died at the Spring Meadows Hospital in Noida a decade ago. The family was awarded Rs 17.5 lakh in compensation by the National Consumer Forum.


Medico-legal expert Dr Lalit Kapoor from the Association of Medical Consultants ( AMC) recalled that the pediatrician had diagnosed the child with typhoid fever and written out a prescription that included an injection of chloromycetin to be given intravenously. But the nurse read the medicine as chloroquine and the child died after suffering for a few days. "I always tell young doctors that their bad handwriting could cost them lakhs," said Dr Kapoor.


But will doctors accept the 'write in capitals' campaign? Dr Mukesh Gupta, who edits AMC's medical journal Grasp, is positive. "There are always situations in which the nurse is not sure if 51U is '5 international units' or '51 units'. It would be better to write medicines in capitals," he said.


The difficulty would be in changing decades of habit. "The habit (of writing in capitals) has to begin in medical schools for it to catch on," said Kapoor. But as Gupta added: "We could write out 100 prescriptions in capitals the time we take to answer phone calls from patients needing to reconfirm the medicines they bought."


The prescription writing habit is changing worldwide. Almost a third of all the prescriptions in the US are electronic. The e-change occurred after a Cornell University study in 2010 showed that nearly two in five handwritten prescriptions had errors.


Closer home, state government-run JJ Hospital in Byculla offers only computerized prescriptions. "We want to implement the computerized prescription plan in all our 14 medical colleges. While this wasn't envisaged due to poor handwriting of doctors, there is no denying that it cuts down on prescription errors," said JJ Hospital dean T P Lahane.


But given the uneven computerization levels in India, Gadgil felt that writing in capital letters would be a better option, especially at stand-alone clinics. Dr Snehalate Deshmukh, former vice-chancellor of Bombay University and former dean of Sion Hospital, concurred, with a caveat: "Doctors shouldn't forget their verbal communication and remember to brief the patient on how to take the medicines."


Mukesh Gupta said the idea would be best implemented by doctors themselves. "We could get doctors' associations to put out statements in medical journals. We could have slides about it during continued medical education lectures, associations could send SMSes to their members, etc," he said.

Save the Indian Rupee

Save the Indian Rupee

YOU CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE TO THE INDIAN ECONOMY BY FOLLOWING FEW SIMPLE STEPS:-

Please spare a couple of minutes here for the sake of India .

I got this article from one of my friends, but it's true. I can see this in day to day life.

Here's a small example:-

Before 12 months 1 US $ = INR Rs 42
After 12 months, now 1 US $ = INR Rs 55.5

Do you think US Economy is booming? No, but Indian Economy is Going Down.

Our economy is in your hands....

INDIAN economy is in a crisis. Our country like many other ASIAN countries, is undergoing a severe economic crunch. Many INDIAN industries are closing down. The INDIAN economy is in a crisis and if we do not take proper steps to control those, we will be in a critical situation.


More than 30,000 crore rupees of foreign exchange are being siphoned out of our country on products such as cosmetics, snacks, tea, beverages, etc... which are grown, produced and consumed here.


A cold drink that costs only 70 / 80 paisa to produce, is sold for Rs.9 and a major chunk of profits from these are sent abroad. This is a serious drain on INDIAN economy.


We have nothing against Multinational companies, but to protect our own interestsm we request everybody to use INDIAN products only atleast for the next two years. With the rise in petrol prices, if we do not do this, the Rupee will devalue further and we will end up paying much more for the same products in the near future.


What you can do about it?

1. Buy only products manufactured by WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.
2. ENROLL as many people as possible for this cause.....


Each individual should become a leader for this awareness. This is the only way to save our country from severe economic crisis. You don't need to give-up your lifestyle. You just need to choose an alternate product.

All categories of products are available from WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.

LIST OF PRODUCTS

COLD DRINKS:-

DRINK LEMON JUICE, FRESH FRUIT JUICES, CHILLED LASSI (SWEET OR SOUR), BUTTER MILK, COCONUT WATER, JAL JEERA, ENERJEE, and MASALA MILK...

INSTEAD OF COCA COLA, PEPSI, LIMCA, MIRINDA, SPRITE

BATHING SOAP:-
USE CINTHOL & OTHER GODREJ BRANDS, SANTOOR, WIPRO SHIKAKAI, MYSORE SANDAL, MARGO, NEEM, EVITA, MEDIMIX, GANGA , NIRMA BATH & CHANDRIKA

INSTEAD OF LUX, LIFEBUOY, REXONA, LIRIL, DOVE, PEARS, HAMAM, LESANCY, CAMAY, PALMOLIVE


TOOTH PASTE:-
USE NEEM, BABOOL, PROMISE, VICO VAJRADANTI, PRUDENT, DABUR PRODUCTS, MISWAK

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, CIBACA, FORHANS, MENTADENT.


TOOTH BRUSH: -
USE PRUDENT, AJANTA , PROMISE

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, FORHANS, ORAL-B

SHAVING CREAM:-
USE GODREJ, EMAMI

INSTEAD OF PALMOLIVE, OLD SPICE, GILLETE


BLADE:-
USE SUPERMAX, TOPAZ, LAZER, ASHOKA

INSTEAD OF SEVEN-O -CLOCK, 365, GILLETTE


TALCUM POWDER:-
USE SANTOOR, GOKUL, CINTHOL, WIPRO BABY POWDER, BOROPLUS

INSTEAD OF PONDS, OLD SPICE, JOHNSON'S BABY POWDER, SHOWER TO SHOWER


MILK POWDER:-
USE INDIANA, AMUL, AMULYA

INSTEAD OF ANIKSPRAY, MILKANA, EVERYDAY MILK, MILKMAID.


SHAMPOO:-
USE LAKME, NIRMA, VELVETTE

INSTEAD OF HALO, ALL CLEAR, NYLE, SUNSILK, HEAD AND SHOULDERS, PANTENE

MOBILE CONNECTIONS:-
USE BSNL, AIRTEL

INSTEAD OF HUTCH

Food Items:-
Eat Tandoori chicken, Vada Pav, Idli, Dosa, Puri, Uppuma

INSTEAD OF KFC, MACDONALD'S, PIZZA HUT, A&W

Every INDIAN product you buy makes a big difference. It saves INDIA . Let us take a firm decision today.


BUY INDIAN TO BE INDIAN - We are not against of foreign products.

WE ARE NOT ANTI-MULTINATIONAL. WE ARE TRYING TO SAVE OUR NATION. EVERY DAY IS A STRUGGLE FOR A REAL FREEDOM. WE ACHIEVED OUR INDEPENDENCE AFTER LOSING MANY LIVES.
THEY DIED PAINFULLY TO ENSURE THAT WE LIVE PEACEFULLY. THE CURRENT TREND IS VERY THREATENING.


MULTINATIONALS CALL IT GLOBALIZATION OF INDIAN ECONOMY. FOR INDIANS LIKE YOU AND ME, IT IS RE-COLONIZATION OF INDIA . THE COLONIST'S LEFT INDIA THEN. BUT THIS TIME, THEY WILL MAKE SURE THEY DON'T MAKE ANY MISTAKES.


WHO WOULD LIKE TO LET A "GOOSE THAT LAYS GOLDEN EGGS" SLIP AWAY?


PLEASE REMEMBER: POLITICAL FREEDOM IS USELESS WITHOUT ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE


RUSSIA , S.KOREA , MEXICO - THE LIST IS VERY LONG!! LET US LEARN FROM THEIR EXPERIENCE AND FROM OUR HISTORY. LET US DO THE DUTY OF EVERY TRUE INDIAN.


FINALLY, IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU CAN'T GIVE UP ALL OF THE ITEMS MENTIONED ABOVE. SO GIVE UP AT LEAST ONE ITEM FOR THE SAKE OF OUR COUNTRY!

We would be sending useless forwards to our friends daily. Instead, please forward this mail to all your friends to create awareness.

"LITTLE DROPS MAKE A GREAT OCEAN ."

PLEASE TRY TO BE AN INDIAN.....

When I was born..!!

A Great Woman was there To hold me.. My Mother..!!

When I grew as a child..!!

A Woman was there to Care for Me & play with me.. My Sister.. !!

When I went to School..!!

A Woman was there To help me learn.. My Teacher.. !!

When I became depressed & whenever I lost..!!

A Woman was there to offer a shoulder.. My Friend.. !!

When I needed company, compatibility & love..!!

A great woman was there for Me.. My Wife.. !!

When I became tough..!!

A Woman was there To melt me.. My Daughter.. !!

And.. When I Die..

A Woman is there to absorb me In My Motherland.. !!

If you are a Man Value Every Woman.. !!

And..

If you are a Woman.. Be proud to be the One.. ! :) ♥

Love u so much... MOM

When Life Pushes You Down

When life pushes you down, push back!

That’s what you’re here for.

You’re capable, you’re creative, you’re full of life and energy.

You have what it takes to move yourself forward around any obstacle.

Don’t let anything stop you.

Take strength from meeting the challenges, and move ahead.

The struggles you face are just what you need to fulfill your potential for greatness.

A year from now, when you look back at today,

you’ll see that the problem you’re so concerned with right now,

Was another valuable lesson waiting to be learned.

A MOUSE TRAP STORY... WITH A MORAL AT THE END.

(This is excellent.......)

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.

What food might this contain?

The mouse wondered - - - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.

Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning:

There is a mousetrap in the house!
There is a mousetrap in the house!

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, 'Mr.Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.'

The mouse turned to the pig and told him, 'There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!'

The pig sympathized, but said, I am so very sorry, Mr.Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers.'

The mouse turned to the cow and said, 'There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!'

The cow said, 'Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose.'

So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap . . . alone.

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.

The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.

The snake bit the farmer's wife.

The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever.

Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.

But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock.

To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig.

The farmer's wife did not get well; she died.

So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.

The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you,

Remember ---- when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk.

We are all involved in this journey called life.

We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.

SEND THIS TO EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER HELPED YOU OUT AND LET THEM KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE.

REMEMBER. . . . . . EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD
IN ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY;
OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON.

One of the best things to hold onto in this world is a FRIEND!!!

A Beautiful Inspirational Story

Hi Everyone

Please take the time to read this. It is very encouraging for everyone of us as we all struggle daily.

You will enjoy the new insights that Rick Warren has, with his wife now having cancer and him having "wealth" from the book sales. This is an

absolutely incredible short interview with Rick Warren, "Purpose Driven Life " author and pastor of Saddleback Church in California.

In the interview by Paul Bradshaw with Rick Warren, Rick said:

People ask me, What is the purpose of life? And I respond: In a nutshell,

life is preparation for eternity. We were made to last forever, and God

wants us to be with Him in Heaven.

One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body--

but not the end of me.

I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillions

Of years in eternity. This is the warm-up act - the dress rehearsal. God

Wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity.

We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life

isn't going to make sense.

Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just

Coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one.

The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character

Than your comfort.

God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making

Your life happy.

We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of

life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness.

This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the

toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer.

I used to think that life was hills and valleys - you go through a dark

time, then you go to the mountaintop, back and forth. I don't believe

that anymore.

Rather than life being hills and valleys, I believe that it's kind of

Like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good

And something bad in your life.

No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something

Bad that needs to be worked on.

And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something

good you can thank God for.

You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems.

If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness,"which

is my problem, my issues, my pain." But one of the easiest ways to get

rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others.

We discovered quickly that in spite of the prayers of hundreds of

Thousands of people, God was not going to heal Kay or make it easy for her.

It has been very difficult for her, and yet God has strengthened her

character, given her a ministry of helping other people, given her a

testimony, drawn her closer to Him and to people.

You have to learn to deal with both the good and the bad of life.

Actually, sometimes learning to deal with the good is harder. For

instance, this past year, all of a sudden, when the book sold 15 million copies,

it made me instantly very wealthy.

It also brought a lot of notoriety that I had never had to deal with

before. I don't think God gives you money or notoriety for your own ego

or for you to live a life of ease.

So I began to ask God what He wanted me to do with this money, notoriety

and influence. He gave me two different passages that helped me decide

what to do, II Corinthians 9 and Psalm 72

First, in spite of all the money coming in, we would not change our

lifestyle one bit. We made no major purchases.

Second, about midway through last year, I stopped taking a salary from

The church.

Third, we set up foundations to fund an initiative we call The Peace

Plan to plant churches, equip leaders, assist the poor , care for the sick,

And educate the next generation.

Fourth, I added up all that the church had paid me in the 24 years since

I started the church, and I gave it all back. It was liberating to be able

To serve God for free.

We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions?

Popularity?

Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or

Am I going to be driven by God's purposes (for my life)?

When I get up in the morning, I sit on the side of my bed and say, God,

If I don't get anything else done today, I want to know You more and love

You better. God didn't put me on earth just to fulfill a to-do list. He's

More interested in what I am than what I do.

That's why we're called human beings, not human doings.

Happy moments, PRAISE GOD.

Difficult moments, SEEK GOD.

Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD.

Painful moments, TRUST GOD.

Every moment, THANK GOD.

NOW ... PLEASE SHARE THIS WITH YOUR FRIENDS!