ABHISHEK GUPTA: 2012

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Don't Blame Love For The Mistakes You Make

After a relationship of 5 years one day she left him as she found someone else. He asked her for his mistake, he asked her that what did he do wrong and she replied many times you told me lie, many times you made me cry, many times you have not given me importance, many times when I needed you..
You were not there in my life.

He did not speak a word, after returning back home he committed suicide and left a note

“I am punishing myself for all the mistakes that I have not made in LOVE :'("

Friends, Love is a journey and in this journey at times things may go wrong but that should never become a reason to quit. What really matters is how you together handled that situation and moved out of it. In this story girl had no excuse, she was guilty as she was wrong and thus she has put wrong allegations on the boy who loved her even after she left!

"No one can stop you if you have planned to cheat someone but please don't blame Him/Her for the mistake you make."

Why did you play games with my heart?

While being somebody for someone, most of the girls forget that they have their own personality too. I knew him since the first year of college. I was madly in love with him. He always used to say that we are not in a relationship, but I have feelings for you. I used to think that he loves me, but he is not expressing it. But I used to care for him and love him from the bottom of my heart. I started to plunge deeper into it. He would call me up in the morning, to say “Good morning beautiful” and at night before sleeping to make sure that I’m fine. He always protected me in front of our friends, preferred me, held my hand and told everyone that “she is special to me”. We used to go out on dates, movies & parties. Everyone in college used to think that we’re made for each other. I was very happy. But after a few months, things started worsening. Our relationship started to wane when he passed out of the college and I was still there as a junior. We couldn’t talk as much as we used to; it made me insecure, very insecure.

I used to call him every now and then but he wouldn’t receive. I started growing restless, started spoiling my exams. I couldn’t study, couldn’t do anything. I just used to call him, text him or simply wait for his call. It became an obsession. But he never cared to respond, he would simply message “I am busy, I will talk to you later”. After some days, he even stopped messaging that. One day I called him up from another number, asked him to answer my questions, why was he doing this. His reply was “I never said that we are in a relationship. Why did you assume it? Now please stop disturbing me and get a life!” My whole world came crashing down. I sat in my room, crying for days! Months passed by, and there was no news of him. He never called back, never messaged. I deleted him from my facebook account to avoid visiting his profile again and again. I have stopped believing in love. I don’t trust any guy now! But the questions still haunt me. What was it? Why did he play with my heart? Can anyone explain?

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Write all prescriptions in capital letters

Write all prescriptions in capital letters, Mumbai citizens tell doctors

MUMBAI: It turns out that all those jokes about doctors' scrawl are not funny at all.

Doctors' illegible handwriting causes 7,000 deaths in the US every year and another 1.5 million Americans report minor adverse reactions-be it diarrhoea or rashes-or even death.

Now, a movement has begun in Mumbai asking the medical fraternity to write prescriptions in "separate, capital letters". The brainchild of an NGO called the Forum for Enhancement of Quality in Healthcare (FEQH) and the Quality Council of India (a semi-government organization accrediting services), the first meeting on the issue held last week was attended by representatives of medical associations and NGOs. The campaign borrows from QCI's hospital accreditation system called the National Accreditation Board for Hospitals (NABH) which requires prescriptions to be written in capital letters.

"We don't have an estimate of how many people suffer or die because prescriptions written by doctors couldn't be deciphered by pharmacists. But going by the US estimates, we can be sure that India, where 40 lakh prescriptions are written every day, has a fair share of errors," said FEQH chairperson Prakash Gadgil.
Few cases of the tragedy that poor handwriting can wreak have made it to the annals of Indian medical history; in the most famous one, a three-year-old child died at the Spring Meadows Hospital in Noida a decade ago. The family was awarded Rs 17.5 lakh in compensation by the National Consumer Forum.

Medico-legal expert Dr Lalit Kapoor from the Association of Medical Consultants ( AMC) recalled that the pediatrician had diagnosed the child with typhoid fever and written out a prescription that included an injection of chloromycetin to be given intravenously. But the nurse read the medicine as chloroquine and the child died after suffering for a few days. "I always tell young doctors that their bad handwriting could cost them lakhs," said Dr Kapoor.

But will doctors accept the 'write in capitals' campaign? Dr Mukesh Gupta, who edits AMC's medical journal Grasp, is positive. "There are always situations in which the nurse is not sure if 51U is '5 international units' or '51 units'. It would be better to write medicines in capitals," he said.

The difficulty would be in changing decades of habit. "The habit (of writing in capitals) has to begin in medical schools for it to catch on," said Kapoor. But as Gupta added: "We could write out 100 prescriptions in capitals the time we take to answer phone calls from patients needing to reconfirm the medicines they bought."

The prescription writing habit is changing worldwide. Almost a third of all the prescriptions in the US are electronic. The e-change occurred after a Cornell University study in 2010 showed that nearly two in five handwritten prescriptions had errors.

Closer home, state government-run JJ Hospital in Byculla offers only computerized prescriptions. "We want to implement the computerized prescription plan in all our 14 medical colleges. While this wasn't envisaged due to poor handwriting of doctors, there is no denying that it cuts down on prescription errors," said JJ Hospital dean T P Lahane.

But given the uneven computerization levels in India, Gadgil felt that writing in capital letters would be a better option, especially at stand-alone clinics. Dr Snehalate Deshmukh, former vice-chancellor of Bombay University and former dean of Sion Hospital, concurred, with a caveat: "Doctors shouldn't forget their verbal communication and remember to brief the patient on how to take the medicines."

Mukesh Gupta said the idea would be best implemented by doctors themselves. "We could get doctors' associations to put out statements in medical journals. We could have slides about it during continued medical education lectures, associations could send SMSes to their members, etc," he said.

Save the Indian Rupee

Save the Indian Rupee

YOU CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE TO THE INDIAN ECONOMY BY FOLLOWING FEW SIMPLE STEPS:-

Please spare a couple of minutes here for the sake of India .

I got this article from one of my friends, but it's true. I can see this in day to day life.

Here's a small example:-

Before 12 months 1 US $ = INR Rs 42
After 12 months, now 1 US $ = INR Rs 55.5

Do you think US Economy is booming? No, but Indian Economy is Going Down.

Our economy is in your hands....

INDIAN economy is in a crisis. Our country like many other ASIAN countries, is undergoing a severe economic crunch. Many INDIAN industries are closing down. The INDIAN economy is in a crisis and if we do not take proper steps to control those, we will be in a critical situation.

More than 30,000 crore rupees of foreign exchange are being siphoned out of our country on products such as cosmetics, snacks, tea, beverages, etc... which are grown, produced and consumed here.

A cold drink that costs only 70 / 80 paisa to produce, is sold for Rs.9 and a major chunk of profits from these are sent abroad. This is a serious drain on INDIAN economy.

We have nothing against Multinational companies, but to protect our own interestsm we request everybody to use INDIAN products only atleast for the next two years. With the rise in petrol prices, if we do not do this, the Rupee will devalue further and we will end up paying much more for the same products in the near future.

What you can do about it?

1. Buy only products manufactured by WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.
2. ENROLL as many people as possible for this cause.....

Each individual should become a leader for this awareness. This is the only way to save our country from severe economic crisis. You don't need to give-up your lifestyle. You just need to choose an alternate product.

All categories of products are available from WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.

LIST OF PRODUCTS

COLD DRINKS:-

DRINK LEMON JUICE, FRESH FRUIT JUICES, CHILLED LASSI (SWEET OR SOUR), BUTTER MILK, COCONUT WATER, JAL JEERA, ENERJEE, and MASALA MILK...

INSTEAD OF COCA COLA, PEPSI, LIMCA, MIRINDA, SPRITE

BATHING SOAP:-
USE CINTHOL & OTHER GODREJ BRANDS, SANTOOR, WIPRO SHIKAKAI, MYSORE SANDAL, MARGO, NEEM, EVITA, MEDIMIX, GANGA , NIRMA BATH & CHANDRIKA

INSTEAD OF LUX, LIFEBUOY, REXONA, LIRIL, DOVE, PEARS, HAMAM, LESANCY, CAMAY, PALMOLIVE

TOOTH PASTE:-
USE NEEM, BABOOL, PROMISE, VICO VAJRADANTI, PRUDENT, DABUR PRODUCTS, MISWAK

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, CIBACA, FORHANS, MENTADENT.

TOOTH BRUSH: -
USE PRUDENT, AJANTA , PROMISE

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, FORHANS, ORAL-B

SHAVING CREAM:-
USE GODREJ, EMAMI

INSTEAD OF PALMOLIVE, OLD SPICE, GILLETE

BLADE:-
USE SUPERMAX, TOPAZ, LAZER, ASHOKA

INSTEAD OF SEVEN-O -CLOCK, 365, GILLETTE

TALCUM POWDER:-
USE SANTOOR, GOKUL, CINTHOL, WIPRO BABY POWDER, BOROPLUS

INSTEAD OF PONDS, OLD SPICE, JOHNSON'S BABY POWDER, SHOWER TO SHOWER

MILK POWDER:-
USE INDIANA, AMUL, AMULYA

INSTEAD OF ANIKSPRAY, MILKANA, EVERYDAY MILK, MILKMAID.

SHAMPOO:-
USE LAKME, NIRMA, VELVETTE

INSTEAD OF HALO, ALL CLEAR, NYLE, SUNSILK, HEAD AND SHOULDERS, PANTENE

MOBILE CONNECTIONS:-
USE BSNL, AIRTEL

INSTEAD OF HUTCH

Food Items:-
Eat Tandoori chicken, Vada Pav, Idli, Dosa, Puri, Uppuma

INSTEAD OF KFC, MACDONALD'S, PIZZA HUT, A&W

Every INDIAN product you buy makes a big difference. It saves INDIA . Let us take a firm decision today.

BUY INDIAN TO BE INDIAN - We are not against of foreign products.

WE ARE NOT ANTI-MULTINATIONAL. WE ARE TRYING TO SAVE OUR NATION. EVERY DAY IS A STRUGGLE FOR A REAL FREEDOM. WE ACHIEVED OUR INDEPENDENCE AFTER LOSING MANY LIVES.
THEY DIED PAINFULLY TO ENSURE THAT WE LIVE PEACEFULLY. THE CURRENT TREND IS VERY THREATENING.

MULTINATIONALS CALL IT GLOBALIZATION OF INDIAN ECONOMY. FOR INDIANS LIKE YOU AND ME, IT IS RE-COLONIZATION OF INDIA . THE COLONIST'S LEFT INDIA THEN. BUT THIS TIME, THEY WILL MAKE SURE THEY DON'T MAKE ANY MISTAKES.

WHO WOULD LIKE TO LET A "GOOSE THAT LAYS GOLDEN EGGS" SLIP AWAY?

PLEASE REMEMBER: POLITICAL FREEDOM IS USELESS WITHOUT ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE

RUSSIA , S.KOREA , MEXICO - THE LIST IS VERY LONG!! LET US LEARN FROM THEIR EXPERIENCE AND FROM OUR HISTORY. LET US DO THE DUTY OF EVERY TRUE INDIAN.

FINALLY, IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU CAN'T GIVE UP ALL OF THE ITEMS MENTIONED ABOVE. SO GIVE UP AT LEAST ONE ITEM FOR THE SAKE OF OUR COUNTRY!

We would be sending useless forwards to our friends daily. Instead, please forward this mail to all your friends to create awareness.

"LITTLE DROPS MAKE A GREAT OCEAN ."

PLEASE TRY TO BE AN INDIAN.....